Going to a self-improvement is the best way I’ve found to connect with likeminded people. Note: The events don’t have to be about relationships or dating. Go to events about something you’re interested in, f.ex cars, Stephen King books or gaming.
If you don’t feel ready to physically show up at an event, try the forums. Start writing with them, and if you can, meet up.
Meetup.com is an amazing source for finding like-minded people in your city. You can find people interested in the same things as you and go to their meetups, often for free!
At Meetup you’ll find men’s group, anxiety and depression groups, speed-dating events, boardgaming events, volleyball, wine tasting, poem reading, EVERYTHING!
http://socialanxietysupport.com – The biggest social anxiety community on the internet. If you feel alone about your struggles you’ll meet many people who will understand your situation here.
http://rsdnation.com – A giant community of guys passionate about seduction and self-improvement. The instructors are good speakers and very experienced in the art of meeting women in the nightlife. RSD is a hard core community and if you join these guys I promise you will increase the standards for your whole life.
http://simplepickup.com – I have a lot in common with SimplePickup as I’ve also been making pickup videos on Youtube. They inspired us to do it. They also TEACH pickup, confidence and interacting with women.
https://www.arsamorata.com/ – This is not a forum, but I recommend their programs and events. Zan’s book, The Alabaster Girl, will flip around your beliefs about seduction. Much of the philosophy in this course, especially my take on seduction, have their roots in the same tree as Zan’s. Also, Bucharest is where they’re located. If you want to go to their events, it’s a perfect place to travel. It’s very cheap there, the girls are gorgeous, and they really like foreigners!